When is the right time to tell someone you love them? Is it the first date? Is it the third time you shag? Is there a specific time? I don't know. It's not easy. I've been out with guys who have said "I Love You" the second we started dating...not good...though I never did actually like him, he was...and I hate to say it...a rebound guy. I'm sure he didn't think of it that way and that when I broke up with him that it hurt him. My first 'boyfriend' I was thinking of ways to brake up with him when he texted me and told me that he was braking up with me. Can you even believe it, but instead of cry about it for hours or days I was happy? He was one that was...oh shit i'm almost finished school and haven't had a boyfriend so lets go out with him type thing...sitting here reading this over again I sound like a cold heartless bitch :-/
I've had feelings for people for years and they have rejected me after having asked them out it didn't hurt, but it wasn't nice either. I think I must have come to the conclusion that I am never going to get the guys I like because they are all very much unattainable. There either married, gay or just not into me that way. Some of them don't even know I exist. OK off topic slightly. Back to it.
A friend of mine has recently been ripped in two by a guy, she loved him but he didn't love her back. She told him and he rejected her. It just got me thinking about when it was the right time to tell someone you loved them. I've never said it to anyone...other than my family, but that's a given really isn't it. You have to love your family, they are the only ones you've got.
Answers in the comments if you like :-)
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